Marion

Tell Us About Yourself and your life?

My name is Marion. I was born and raised in The Hague and I still live there with my two cats, Jan and Arie. I married my first love when I was 21 but unfortunately, we divorced when I was 24. It was me who was the problem, as I fell in love with somebody else. Since then I have had several relationships but have now been single for 10 years. I really don’t mind being by myself. As an only child of very young parents, I was used to being on my own most of the time. So I can honestly say that I am my own best friend and we actually get along together really very well. In other words, I never feel lonely.


Tell us about your career?

Due to circumstances at home, I started working immediately after my final exams. Through courses, at Schoevers I was able to work my way up to Secretary and then Executive Secretary. In the 1980s I helped my then partner expand his wine business from a small retail store to a leading wine import company with a franchise chain. When I turned 40, I changed course and started my own business. It was an import company, retail store, and wholesale business (for hospitality and retail) in high-quality tea and related items such as confectionery and tableware. In 2011 I opened a second shop. After doing this for 26 years, I got tired of the hard work and stress that comes with having your own business. The year I turned 66, I sold the entire business. Since then (at the time of writing 2.5 yrs ago) I have been enjoying my retirement. 


If You Had a Warning Label, What Would It Be?

Take care! She can be direct but she really is ok.

What Scares You?

Actually, nothing can scare me anymore. I live in the moment, I don’t look to the past and I take the future as it comes. 


What do you consider your greatest achievement?

Having had a complicated childhood, I am proud to have grown into the independent, positive, and happy person that I am now.


What is your fantasy version of your older self, let’s say 80 years old?

Still, a sparkling, positive person, giving dinner parties for my friends, visiting art galleries, going to the cinema, and visiting the theatre to see a modern ballet or a good play. And of course still living in The Hague, because that really is my favorite place to be. 


What Would You Tweet to Your Younger Self?

The world-famous ‘Take Five’ by Dave Brubeck is one of my favorite albums. I wished I had said to my younger self: “Take five. Relax, look around and enjoy the moment”. 

What do you do to stay positive both mentally and physically?

Normally (pre-COVID19) I would go to the gym five times a week for my yoga practice and do body pump. Now I do some exercises at home (not as many as I would like because of a lack of discipline, haha) and I walk a lot, really a lot. 


What is your age and how old do you feel?

I am 68 and I certainly don’t feel my age at all! In my head I am 30ish; still eager to do many things. I don’t like leaning back. I am a Sagittarius, so I like change. I need inspiration and I get that from going around, traveling, reading, following nice accounts on Instagram, visiting museums. I never really have a dull moment!


Styling Dayenne Bekker
Hair and makeup Bianca Fabri
Marion is wearing Adidas
Text edit Cathleen Kilbca

  1. Hi Dee,
    I am 50 and fab and I would love to be featured on your page.
    I am from South Africa.

    1. Hi Kim! How wonderful would it be if I could fly to South Africa and portray you! X

  2. It would be wonderful. I could show you around our beautiful country and introduce you to many other interesting bloomers of 40 and over xxx

  3. I’m 54 and am struggling with watching all my friends spend a fortune on plastic surgery. I don’t want to cut my face up! I’m working on learning to love myself as I am. I’d love to be featured in your Instagram to help me get past this and to lead the way for women like me.

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